Saturday, November 2, 2019

Blessings On Thee, Little Man. . .

A couple days ago was Halloween, our culture's annual ghoul-fest-cum-candy-grab.  Jenn and I have typically taken a somewhat detached approach to the festivities, but we'll play along good-naturedly, and have a stash of miniature sweets on hand to pass out to the costumed youngsters who make the effort to venture down our one-block dead-end street.  When the weather is nice enough (a relative term, to be sure; Michigan in late October is rarely what you might call 'nice' in any absolute sense), we'll flip up the lower pane on the storm-door and poke our heads out to greet the youngsters who come to our door.

This year, the weather was not even 'nice', much less 'nice enough'.  Temperatures were in the low 30s, the wind was howling, and spitting rain turned to snow as the evening wore on.  So, we wimped out.  Rather than greeting the costumed kids who came to our house, we turned on the porch light and just left a big bowl of candy by the door, with an invitation to the kids to help themselves.  Incredibly lame, I know. . . Of course, that approach has certain, um, vulnerabilities attached to it, but the weather was so nasty that we wouldn't have been surprised if there had been no trick-or-treaters at all.

Alas, in a fallen world, vulnerabilities like that are almost guaranteed to be exploited, and sure enough, at one point, we heard a ruckus from the front porch, and when we glanced out the window, the candy bowl, which had been full enough just a few moments before, was empty, and a rowdy group of revelers was scurrying away from our yard.  I went out to retrieve the empty bowl, preparing to turn off the light and pull down the curtain on this year's observance of Halloween, such as it was.

As I did, a young fellow, maybe 7 or 8 years old, was coming up our steps, his dad waiting back on the sidewalk.  He and I stared at the empty bowl, and I lamented that some greedy folks had bogarted the entire supply of festive candy (God knows who you are. . . just sayin').  As I surveyed the porch, I noticed that three pieces of candy had been strewn across the porch in the frenzy, and so, with an apology, I suggested to the young man that he could take those, since it was all we had left.

He bent down and picked up the three pieces, thanking me, and then placed one piece back in the bowl, "in case somebody else might want one."

There may or may not have been a tear in my eye as I looked at the dad in silent acknowledgement of a young man of exemplary character. . .

God bless you, young man. . . I wish there were more like you. . .

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It's five months since I last posted here (and more like six since my last 'substantial' post).  I might post something in the next little while, explaining my absence.  But, neither do I want to give anybody (possibly) false hope that 'I'm back'.  It is certainly not the case that nothing worth posting about has happened in our lives. . .

8 comments:

  1. Oh dear. Now you have me concerned. I hope you and Jenn are ok, health-wise.

    There was a touching video on NBC last night about a boy who saw that a candy bowl was empty on someone's front porch and he took handfuls out of his own bucket and placed it in the bowl. I might have teared up. If I can find the video, I will come back to post it.

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    1. Thanks for your concern, my friend. I have had some health issues, but they're well on the mend. Not sure how active a blogger I'll be going forward, but health-wise, we're really pretty good. . .

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  2. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2019/11/01/halloween-candy-bowl-was-empty-so-young-trick-or-treater-shared-his-own-stash-with-strangers/

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    1. WaPo won't let me see without a subscription, but I did find it elsewhere. Adorable. . .

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  3. Great story well told!

    I did the same this year and just left a bowl outside. I did watch them through a Ring Door Bell and if they looked rowdy I told them through the speaker to just take one. THat worked, but then I did not have a group of teens, just little ones.

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    1. Coming from you, Joe, that's pretty high praise. . .

      After the fact, I actually wished that I had one of those talking door bells. Could've been fun. . .

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  4. We'll take what we can get, "substantial" or not.
    We had to just honk and wave in late July when we passed through your neck of the woods.
    Seems like there's just never enough time.

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    1. I was wondering if that honk I heard might have been you. . .

      ;)

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